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Watched Buy Now and it was sobering. Since I had children I often shop second hand since they outgrow everything so quickly. As I’ve gotten older I definitely am not as drawn to trends and live a classic piece/look. Always looking for items I can wear multiple ways to get the most use. Love your newsletter!

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I think about those questions so often. I also enjoyed the documentary and it was especially helpful it came out over Thanksgiving. It actually stopped me from buying some things!

I am still finding my personal style, so agree with what another commenter said on thrifting. Especially now, we are so lucky to have access to so many beautiful second hand garments. Depop, Poshmark, Vinted, Noihsaf Bazaar, and of course all the luxury ones. Whenever I go to those sites, it just makes me think that we truly don’t need to buy new most of the time (there are exceptions of course).

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This resonates so deeply! Wearing natural fabrics in particular makes me feel more beautiful in my own skin.

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I’ve been thinking about this too. I am learning the hard way that shopping for longevity also means doing a bit of digging. Sadly price and quality don’t always correlate in our fast fashion world. I’m learning to really examine pieces for quality even if the quality “should” be good based on the brand/price point. I have also realized I am happier if I wait to fill a gap until I find a piece I’m truly happy with, whether it’s because I am searching for the perfect piece or saving up for what I truly want.

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Yes!! I’ve definitely gotten pricey pieces before that sadly did not meet quality standards in my opinion.

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I’m leaning in to shopping for longevity. I want pieces I will wear often and from year to year.

I think all of our purchases should be durable and sustainable. I don’t think things are made with that in mind anymore, however. Cheap (for the makers) and ultimately disposable seems to be the mindset.

To get a fix of shopping joy without the regret I go thrifting. I can usually find something that will slide into my wardrobe, and I love giving something a new life.

“Enough” is a tough concept. I’m very good at saying I don’t need that. My husband, not so much.

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Thank you for sharing these thoughts!!

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Will watch this asap! Love the questions n have been asking the same of my clients.

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Let me know what you think!!

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I was wondering if you were planning to sell the style of the Connie Huggies in the New Year? I have worn my pair every day for over two years, but Friday lost one while walking my dog. Do you have any back stock?

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